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My guy best friend stopped talking to me when i got a boyfriend

Before you can post or reply in these forums, please join our online community. It is hard to let go of a friendship when we don't fully understand the circumstances, we don't like loosing contact with people we care for. It must be hard to see this relationship happening with your friend, especially so as it sounds like she is being abused by this guy. I'm not sure there is anything you can do to change the situation.


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I write to you today not to pound on a familiar drum, but to provide some insight into the same beat we've been hearing for a while. Ladies, if a single guy wants to be your friend, that is normal.

If a single guy wants to be your friend, calls and texts you as much as your girlfriends do and frequently asks for one-on-one hangouts, that's not normal. Have you noticed, sometimes, you meet a man, are very friendly with the hopes of becoming friends, and suddenly, within weeks, he treats you like you've been friends since elementary school?

You immediately jump the heap and are now one of his closest friends. He wants to hang out every weekend. Did he have no other friends before? Now, let me clarify, because it appears like I am downing the guy. I'm not; I am a guy, and I have been there. Say a guy meets a girl he finds attractive; they hit it off and become friends. Now, there is attraction and chemistry.

What man would not be interested in pursuing this person as a romantic partner? It is actually the opposite of being shallow. Why would he say, "Well she's beautiful, and we get along great, but I don't want to date her. Women can have male friends they find attractive and enjoy, but simply don't have romantic feelings toward them. It's weird and men have been pondering this conundrum since the beginning of time, usually alone in their bedrooms.

Have you ever had that moment when you were hanging out with a platonic male friend, and then he "got weird? Has he ever gotten oddly angry when you talked about dating other men? This is not normal in a friendship. I don't get jealous when my best friend Emile hangs out with his girlfriend. I don't "not talk to him" for three days because he told me he thought my coworker was cute that was hypothetical -- don't get mad, Emile's girlfriend.

That leads me to my next beat: single men hanging out with their female friends who have boyfriends. Often, the boyfriend will get jealous. Women will defend, and rightfully so, that they should be trusted. I agree. On board. The problem though, is the chipper.

Then, when you are having issues with your man, is it really your guy friend's best interest to help you repair? Could there possibly be some ulterior motives and some biases to what he tells you? When I ask my friend Emile sorry Emile, I keep bringing you up advice about my dating life, I know he will give me his honest opinion.

She told me her last relationship suffered some setbacks because her boyfriend had trouble dealing with this fact. The second part to this story comes when her guy friend was having a party and invited her. She asked him if I could go.

I would never not invite my best friend Emile, did I mention that? Keep in mind, ladies, the whole "shoe on the other foot" situation. It hardly ever happens, which is why we seldom have to talk about it. But, say you have a boyfriend, and one day, out of the blue, he tells you he just made a friend who happens to be a gorgeous girl, and they get along great. Every once in a while, people will mistake them for a couple.

Now, through some set of circumstances, you are sure this woman is totally all about your man. You just know it. You approach your boyfriend; you tell him how you believe his female friend likes him and how you worry about the two of them hanging out alone. Your boyfriend responds by telling you you're being insecure, jealous and that if you trusted him, you would know there was nothing to worry about. You would feel…not good. There is a reason men are jealous of their girlfriends hanging out with single men.

It is because we are men, and most of us have been the well-intentioned "friend" who wanted more. Homework: Women, choose one of your guy friends and try to make out with him. If he reciprocates, you'll know I'm right.

To test the control of this experiment, I will go try to make out with Emile and see what happens. Keep in mind, I make assumptions and educated guesses based on my experiences and research. I'm trying to have a conversation with you, not preach to you. Your comments or personal emails are more than welcome. By Anthony Giambusso. Can men and women be friends? Straight-up, no strings, no caveats, full-on, platonic friends?

This guy wants more than friendship. It's an anomaly I don't care to look into, but it exists. I think there was a Vertical Horizon song about it. Now ladies, again, I'm addressing you specifically. And if so, isn't that a problem? It might not be helpful, but it will be genuine.

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I will say it can be an ugly quality of mine, as people tend to associate this kind of behavior with gossips and bullies. At the same time, it's also one of my best qualities. So many of our initial thoughts can be raw, ugly, and hurtful. Given my reputation and passion for speaking my mind, I've become that "safe space" for friends.

I get it; you date my friend now. So I just feel weird how now my BFF is constantly talking to my boyfriend. My boyfriend stated that my approaching her with this will change the dynamic of something innocent and turn texts that mean nothing into something.

Dear Polly,. At a stalemate, we stopped talking. We live in the same neighborhood, and I share a building with mutual friends, who are nice to me in person but secretly believe I am a bad friend, according to other friends. And mostly: Am I a bad friend?

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I faked as much excitement as I could. Maria and I had been friends for 17 years, since we met at secondary school aged We were always in touch, meeting up at least once a fortnight, and calling each other most days to catch up, rant and laugh about our lives. When she met her boyfriend Mo last year, I was genuinely thrilled for her. My first impressions of Mo were great. But a few weeks into their relationship, things between Maria and I took take a strange turn. She became 'too busy' to meet up or talk on the phone.

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I would say that I have more guy friends than girl friends. I love my girl friends, but we often clash as we have similar complaints and needs. His reasoning behind this is that if you spend enough time together, things could change, and best friends usually spend a lot of time together. Personally, I choose to avoid this reasoning.

I write to you today not to pound on a familiar drum, but to provide some insight into the same beat we've been hearing for a while.

Does trying to fix the relationship actually make it worse? I had a guy who I got on very well with and we hung out together and talked a lot together. It showed he cared for me, and I considered him a good friend.

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Please I need advice. There is this guy in my department. Let's call him Joe. He is good looking and very intelligent.

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